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Enlightenment Monday’s : Have Faith And Stay The Course

A day late and a dollar short. Monday is almost over and I am just now sitting down to write out all the feels from last week…

This past week wrapped up my month to be still and to be honest, I am sad it has come to an end. I feel like for the first time in years I have learned so much – about myself as a woman, wife, and mother. I finally feel I have found my path and a renewed sense of spiritual well-being.

Although, I am not sad to see this particular week come to a close. For many reasons, it was by far the most challenging. While this week was filled with obstacles, I feel it offered me the most growth and development.

3 Things I Learned From My Last Week Of Being Still

  1. Having Faith is hard. Beyond hard. There is simply no other way to describe it. It’s so much easier when there are no obstacles, no challenges. I suppose that is the point of faith – learning to “keep the faith” through our struggles. Its a constant work in progress and I am not sure it gets easier with each new challenge, but I think that is how we continue to grow.
  2. My gratitude journal is a necessity. Now that I have one, I realize I can’t live without it. I have to write in it at least a few times a week. It makes me feel centered or more balanced, if that makes sense? Positivity is so much easier keep when you have to think about it and write it down. It gives me a sense of peace.
  3. No matter the challenges, stay the course. Even though this past week has been filled with challenges, I can’t let it side track me. I have goal I want to accomplish for 2017 and I cannot let life get in the way of that. There will always be something else going on, things I cannot always control, but I can’t allow it to stop me from accomplishing my goals.

June was such an inspiring month, despite the trails. Honestly, I feel like I want to keep the momentum going. So that is just what I am going to do! I am going to continue having faith and staying the course. There is nothing better!

Copyrighted By: Boldly Bravely You





Enlightenment Monday’s : Hard Work Is Like Scrubbing A Shower With A Toothbrush

This weeks enlightenment post comes directly to you from my shower. Yep. You heard that correctly. I gained some perspective this week while scrubbing my shower with a toothbrush. If I thought attending a children’s play was a strange way to grow, then this takes the cake!

The month of April is typically met with ants. So I usually let all other rooms slide a bit, while keeping my focus on the kitchen and main bathroom. I find by keeping up with those two areas, it makes the ants almost nonexistent from about June onward.

The downstairs bathroom is one of the things I let slide and since my husband and I are the only ones who use it, its not a big deal. I have always found our tile shower hard to clean. It’s nice, but it definitely had some where and tear even before we moved in. At any rate, I couldn’t remember the last time I gave it a good scrub. So I grabbed the cleaner and an old toothbrush and got to work.

I scrubbed that sucker from top to bottom, for a good hour. It never looked better! Certainly not brand new, but pretty good if I do say so myself!

And you know what I learned in that hour? If you want something, it takes a lot of hard work. Sounds like a no-brainer, doesn’t it? But it’s more than that. During my time scrubbing the shower, I gained perspective on the definition of hard work.

The definition of hard work is that it looks different to everyone and can take on various forms. For me, that’s growing my blog and accomplishing my 2017 goals. My frustration came at the amount of time that is considered hard work. I have read all of these posts about creating a schedule and devoting so many hours a week to blogging.

Don’t miss understand. I realize to achieve any level of success requires a lot time and effort, but what I was doing was comparing. Comparing myself to others who have already reached their destination, while only seeing a glimpse of their journey.

Comparison is the thief of joy. -Theodore Roosevelt

So, while I was scrubbing my shower I came to the realization that the time I invest in my blog and my goals is enough. So what if its not a set amount of hours week? It may not seem like much to some, but during that time, I put forth a lot of hard work reading and writing.

So the definition of hard work, is that it looks different to everyone. While some may reach their destination more rapidly because of the amount of time they are able to invest, it doesn’t mean that my invest is less than. It just means my journey may take a little longer.

Copyrighted By: Boldly Bravely You





Enlightenment Monday’s : Gruff! : Finding Inspiration In The Oddest Of Places

Enlightenment Monday’s. I realized pretty quickly that I needed to give these Monday posts of my mine, a name. Since this month has been so fruitful in answers and direction, I feel enlightenment is the perfect word to describe these posts.

To be honest, I didn’t think I would be sitting here writing another one of these posts. Up until yesterday, this past week hadn’t been so forth coming with answers. That’s ok. Or at least, that’s what I was telling myself. I mean this is my month to be still and I cannot expect an answer every time I turn around. That isn’t how it works.

So I continued on, business as usual. Speaking to God, enjoying my family, and working on my goals. Then, yesterday we took our preschooler to see a children’s play.

Gruff! The Three Billy Goats Musical

Isn’t it funny how sometimes we gain insight or inspiration in the unlikely of places? I sure didn’t think I would be getting mine from a children’s musical. Watching the actors chase each other through the aisles, as the audience laughed in excitement. Nevertheless, there I was, plagued with inspiration. It was as if God was saying, Open your eyes and look closely at everything surrounding you.

In truth, I knew nothing of this play. I had never even heard of this tale before. So I don’t know if this was the original story line or another version. What I can tell you, is the one I saw, was three versions of the same story rolled into one.

The musical began with a boy who longed to cross a bridge and see the world, but was too afraid. The narrator then sat him down to listen to a story about the troll who lived under the bridge and the three billy goats who were trying to cross it.

First, the story was told from the perspective of the three billy goats. Although the troll was insistent the events happened differently. So the story was then told from the point of view of the troll himself.

Then, the narrator explained this story in fact had nothing to do with the goats or the troll. This story was about a young boy who wanted to see the world and find his way. He learned that everyone has something to offer. It’s merely about finding it and using it to his full potential. And although he was afraid to embark on this new journey, he must {Brave} and do it anyway. 

“There are those who say fate is something beyond our command, that destiny is not our own. But I know better. Our fate lives within us… you only have to be brave enough to see it.” – Merida, Brave

If that wasn’t enough of a nudge, God decided to then give me a gentle shove. Saturday night also happened to be date night for the hubby and I. While we love going to movies or checking errands off our list that are far easy to get done without the kids, my favorite nights by far are the ones with no movie or set plan. Those dates are set with a relaxing tone and filled with conversation.

One topic my husband pressed was my blog. He has been adamant for months that I need an Instagram account for my blog. Honestly, he is probably right. Ok, I know he is right. But I feel like I am still in the learning stages. Plus, with a Facebook Page and Pinterest Account, the idea of adding another social media outlet feels overwhelming. Or maybe it’s fear? Instagram is a completely new platform and isn’t there always a bit of fear when trying something new?

My current goal: to create an Instagram account by the end of summer…

Copyrighted By: Boldly Bravely You